The answer is No. No-one has to play at a party or a private meet.

Everyone always has the right to say no to sex at anytime.

The longer answer is that it is preferred if people play. That is what a Swingers Party is for. If too many people decide not to play the evening would never progress from a social evening of conversation.

It is not acceptable for a man to bring his wife, or a female friend or a hired call girl to a party if the woman has no intention of joining in. These women are called "Meal Tickets", and their attendance is unfair on the other guests.

We understand that couples attending for the first time may find things intimidating and they may decide not to play, don't worry, we were all newbies at one time. However repeated visits by a couple who do not play is not fair on guests who would like to attend, and would like to play.

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